There are warning signs, but you brush them off. After all, these are people who love you. Then something is said that suddenly brings all of those warning signs into stark clarity. Horrified, sad, disappointed, angry–these are the emotions you feel. What happened to them? They were raised to think of others before themselves–to know that people are more important than stuff. And yet now you see, their selfish desires are so much more important than you will ever be.
Too bad you can’t just write them off. You just don’t have it in you.